Dear Friends in Christ our King,
Holy Week approaches soon! We enter into the sorrow of Holy Mother Church in some of the most beautiful liturgies of the entire Liturgical Year.
We will soon meditate on two apostles—Judas and Peter—both of whom sinned against Christ. One betrayed Him, the other denied Him. Both were sorrowful, yet their sorrow led to very different ends: Judas despaired and took his own life, while Peter repented and found salvation. As we approach Good Friday, we must ask ourselves: in moments of weakness, whom do we imitate—Judas, who surrendered to despair, or Peter, who clung to hope?
The devil often tempts us with sadness, hoping to lead us to resentment, discouragement, and ultimately despair. Bad habits, frustrations in the spiritual life, or even simple disappointments can weigh us down. But if our sadness isolates us, makes us spiritually lazy, resentful, or self-indulgent, we risk falling into the despair of Judas. Instead, holy sorrow—the contrition that leads us to confession—should move us to action, drawing us back to God’s mercy. True repentance, like Peter’s, humbles us, opens us to grace, and restores our hope in God’s mercy.
So, how do we overcome this temptation to destructive sadness? Prayer is the key. Scripture tells us: “Is any of you sad? Let him pray.” (James 5:13)
Rather than withdrawing into ourselves, we must reach outward—helping others, embracing the sacraments, and keeping our hearts busy with love for God and neighbor. The remedies against despair are the very things that draw us closer to Christ: confession, the Eucharist, and a life of active faith.